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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 146214" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well.....(ick) </p><p> </p><p>I had numerous talks with Dude over the years about how to behave around women. From a biblical sense to a today's teen type of talk. </p><p> </p><p>Not to be rude but it was like once he found porn on internet? I had to take my computer in 3 times for "bugs" and the man that repairs my computer FINALLY took me aside and said "Did you know the sites are this and that?" It takes a LOT to embarrass me anymore but I swear the stuff that was on my computer was filth. </p><p> </p><p>And then there was the time that I did supervise/monitor his time and a little geeky friend told him that doing this will get you access to a computer OVER the administrator password and it was on again. So when he ran away - and the cop asked me to look up his friends address? You can't believe what popped up on my screen - I could have melted into the seat...it was beyond words in vulgarity. And there stands a cop who just got done saying he doesn't see a lot of decent folks like US - oh bother. </p><p> </p><p>Figure out a way to put a lock on the computer - </p><p>Figure out a way to lock up the keyboard and mouse - </p><p>You CAN erase the daily history to hide where you've been but if you have google you can type in a few letters and it will take you to porn sites he has visited. AND you can get software to block this. On your own computer you can set the security ratings to medication-high. But you may have trouble accessing any other sites. net Nanny is a good one to have. </p><p> </p><p>But taking the mouse, giving 30 minutes a night - AND telling him that you are GOING TO CHECK THE HISTORY archives for the day and there had BETTER be the things YOU went and looked at - in other words - NO CLEAN WIPE - that screams I WAS LOOKING WHERE I DIDN"T NEED TO BE - </p><p>Oh and FYI - you can find those sites that he thinks he erased in your cookies or temporary internet files sometimes. </p><p> </p><p>I can tell you this - it TOTALLY changed my feelings about Dude. Not because he is human or a man...but because he looks and craves such filthy stuff. Even our psyhc. had nothing to say except (mouth open jaw dropped) about some of the hypersexual stuff he did in our home. I know one thing - no lotion was safe and after one time of having my $23.00 Olay Regenerist disappear - and my heal crack cream disappear? I started locking all that stuff up and sent him to the pharmacy for his own notions. </p><p> </p><p>I know about it - and I'm not naive - but I did NOT want to know about it - Know what I mean?? His My Space page is disgraceful - I think that place is the scurge of the 21st century. Even last night I had some 30 something year old woman call my house from NEW JERSEY - and ask for Dude. I go to bed at 8:30 - and this was 11:45 - When she asked for him, I asked what this was about and "smartly" she said "Oh I'm just a friend is this is WIFE?" and I said back even smarter "No this is his mother - do you realize he just turned 17 years of age?" - there was a moment of silence and then I said even MORE smartly "So I guess between knowing he's under age AND the fact that I have YOUR name and number on MY caller ID - I won't be hearing from you again or seeing you on his MY SPACE page?" and she laughed and said "No, but he really does sound mature." and I said "Well he's not." and she said "So I can assume the house I've called is not HIS?" and I said "He really needs to get a new story." She apologized and then said she'd be removing herself from the calling list. </p><p> </p><p>So watch My Space too - and if you have pictures in the computer - Burn them to disk and delete them from your computer or they can get put on the my space too.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome - WELCOME TO FANTASY ISLAND......</p><p> </p><p>ARGH </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 146214, member: 4964"] Well.....(ick) I had numerous talks with Dude over the years about how to behave around women. From a biblical sense to a today's teen type of talk. Not to be rude but it was like once he found porn on internet? I had to take my computer in 3 times for "bugs" and the man that repairs my computer FINALLY took me aside and said "Did you know the sites are this and that?" It takes a LOT to embarrass me anymore but I swear the stuff that was on my computer was filth. And then there was the time that I did supervise/monitor his time and a little geeky friend told him that doing this will get you access to a computer OVER the administrator password and it was on again. So when he ran away - and the cop asked me to look up his friends address? You can't believe what popped up on my screen - I could have melted into the seat...it was beyond words in vulgarity. And there stands a cop who just got done saying he doesn't see a lot of decent folks like US - oh bother. Figure out a way to put a lock on the computer - Figure out a way to lock up the keyboard and mouse - You CAN erase the daily history to hide where you've been but if you have google you can type in a few letters and it will take you to porn sites he has visited. AND you can get software to block this. On your own computer you can set the security ratings to medication-high. But you may have trouble accessing any other sites. net Nanny is a good one to have. But taking the mouse, giving 30 minutes a night - AND telling him that you are GOING TO CHECK THE HISTORY archives for the day and there had BETTER be the things YOU went and looked at - in other words - NO CLEAN WIPE - that screams I WAS LOOKING WHERE I DIDN"T NEED TO BE - Oh and FYI - you can find those sites that he thinks he erased in your cookies or temporary internet files sometimes. I can tell you this - it TOTALLY changed my feelings about Dude. Not because he is human or a man...but because he looks and craves such filthy stuff. Even our psyhc. had nothing to say except (mouth open jaw dropped) about some of the hypersexual stuff he did in our home. I know one thing - no lotion was safe and after one time of having my $23.00 Olay Regenerist disappear - and my heal crack cream disappear? I started locking all that stuff up and sent him to the pharmacy for his own notions. I know about it - and I'm not naive - but I did NOT want to know about it - Know what I mean?? His My Space page is disgraceful - I think that place is the scurge of the 21st century. Even last night I had some 30 something year old woman call my house from NEW JERSEY - and ask for Dude. I go to bed at 8:30 - and this was 11:45 - When she asked for him, I asked what this was about and "smartly" she said "Oh I'm just a friend is this is WIFE?" and I said back even smarter "No this is his mother - do you realize he just turned 17 years of age?" - there was a moment of silence and then I said even MORE smartly "So I guess between knowing he's under age AND the fact that I have YOUR name and number on MY caller ID - I won't be hearing from you again or seeing you on his MY SPACE page?" and she laughed and said "No, but he really does sound mature." and I said "Well he's not." and she said "So I can assume the house I've called is not HIS?" and I said "He really needs to get a new story." She apologized and then said she'd be removing herself from the calling list. So watch My Space too - and if you have pictures in the computer - Burn them to disk and delete them from your computer or they can get put on the my space too. Welcome - WELCOME TO FANTASY ISLAND...... ARGH Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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