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"How can I screw my life up today?"
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 659888" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Lil, he is going to be homeless and without income and that is going to be real tough. But he also has you. T&here is no law or rule that deny you helping him if situation turns so, that you consider that it may be helpful. Right now he has not yet realized that his situation really is what it is. When he does, he does need to find how he is going to react to it. </p><p></p><p>When and if you later see some positive development, him trying to come up with some worthwhile plan or something and you giving him a hand would be helpful, when it is a time to give him a hand. But just now it seems that he uses whatever you do give him as a reason not to do things for himself.</p><p></p><p>Hopefully his homelessness will be short and he quickly has that light bulb moment, but you can't force him. And I well understand the worry especially because he seems somewhat vulnerable. But he needs to start to want to help himself before any help you give him will stick.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 659888, member: 14557"] Lil, he is going to be homeless and without income and that is going to be real tough. But he also has you. T&here is no law or rule that deny you helping him if situation turns so, that you consider that it may be helpful. Right now he has not yet realized that his situation really is what it is. When he does, he does need to find how he is going to react to it. When and if you later see some positive development, him trying to come up with some worthwhile plan or something and you giving him a hand would be helpful, when it is a time to give him a hand. But just now it seems that he uses whatever you do give him as a reason not to do things for himself. Hopefully his homelessness will be short and he quickly has that light bulb moment, but you can't force him. And I well understand the worry especially because he seems somewhat vulnerable. But he needs to start to want to help himself before any help you give him will stick. [/QUOTE]
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