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"How can I screw my life up today?"
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 659969" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>This is where we can drive ourselves crazy. "helping" him did no good yet there is still that mom in you that wants to help.</p><p></p><p>When you get that urge to "help" or just do something "nice" stop, know that you have done everything for him that you can and that's enough. Don't regret what you have done, only regret it if you repeat it. </p><p></p><p>I know how frustrating it is to bend over backwards trying to lay it all out for them, give them advice, explain in detail how to make things work, only to have it dissolve in front of your eyes and have them stand there with the deer in the headlights look wondering why things are not working out for them.</p><p></p><p>That's why you have to step back and let him go. There is nothing left for you to do for him other than tell him you love him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 659969, member: 18516"] This is where we can drive ourselves crazy. "helping" him did no good yet there is still that mom in you that wants to help. When you get that urge to "help" or just do something "nice" stop, know that you have done everything for him that you can and that's enough. Don't regret what you have done, only regret it if you repeat it. I know how frustrating it is to bend over backwards trying to lay it all out for them, give them advice, explain in detail how to make things work, only to have it dissolve in front of your eyes and have them stand there with the deer in the headlights look wondering why things are not working out for them. That's why you have to step back and let him go. There is nothing left for you to do for him other than tell him you love him. [/QUOTE]
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