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It's a hard one Fran. When difficult child was using I knew all the horrible things that could happen. I pestered him to quit--it did no good. I begged him to take care of himself---did no good. I made myself unhealthy trying to get him healthy---and it did no good! If he had died doing what he was doing that what I was doing would have done no good. One the other hand, could I had lived with myself if I had done nothing!