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How do I get easy child daughter to move back in with me?
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<blockquote data-quote="sosotired" data-source="post: 273013" data-attributes="member: 7045"><p>At 12 she can communicate where she wants to live but the judge will weigh more heavily on what's the best placement for her. I'd start with the Ex and talk to him about the bad influences. If he won't budge, your most likely only alternative would be to tell her why you want her home, why you think it would be in her best interest and that you will call the cops to bring her back. Follow through if she doesn't do what you're asking. You shouldn't be afraid to tell her you made a mistake but your intentions are to only do what's best for her. You should also be very, very clear about what the rules are as to when she's allowed over there if and when she does move back.</p><p> </p><p>Dad can file for temp custody while he goes after permanent since you've allowed her to live there so be prepared for a fight.</p><p> </p><p>Why, out of curiousity, did the exchange student make such a difference in your decision to let her live there before vs. now. It sounds like you only just found out that the Ex is allowing the older ones to smoke in the house but I would have to assume that if they were doing it otherwise, she'd eventually get exposed to it.</p><p> </p><p>Not sure if this is allowed but there is a good forum specific to divorce, custody, etc. that has been very helpful for me ... you might find some additional help there. It's divorce source dot com. Click on message centers on the left.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sosotired, post: 273013, member: 7045"] At 12 she can communicate where she wants to live but the judge will weigh more heavily on what's the best placement for her. I'd start with the Ex and talk to him about the bad influences. If he won't budge, your most likely only alternative would be to tell her why you want her home, why you think it would be in her best interest and that you will call the cops to bring her back. Follow through if she doesn't do what you're asking. You shouldn't be afraid to tell her you made a mistake but your intentions are to only do what's best for her. You should also be very, very clear about what the rules are as to when she's allowed over there if and when she does move back. Dad can file for temp custody while he goes after permanent since you've allowed her to live there so be prepared for a fight. Why, out of curiousity, did the exchange student make such a difference in your decision to let her live there before vs. now. It sounds like you only just found out that the Ex is allowing the older ones to smoke in the house but I would have to assume that if they were doing it otherwise, she'd eventually get exposed to it. Not sure if this is allowed but there is a good forum specific to divorce, custody, etc. that has been very helpful for me ... you might find some additional help there. It's divorce source dot com. Click on message centers on the left. [/QUOTE]
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