Thank you ALL! Nerf, feel free to pass info on. I am a BIG believer that with-o parents sharing info there would be very very little known about any and every problem a child has. I know that with-o info shared here there would have been little help for Wiz ever.
Thanks for all the websites, I will be on all of them.
I spoke with J about the knobs last night and she understood. She feels more secure knowing that we will take that step and she does not see it as a punishment. I was worried that she night think it was a punishment, but she didn't at all think that. She said it was more like a railing next to the stairs - something that keeps you safe and tells you the person who put it there cares about your safety. I am truly lucky that she sees it this way, in my opinion.
