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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 750597" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I used to get tremendously wounded here on this board. There was somebody here who posted a lot who I cared about deeply and she cared about me. But her voice was very direct. I felt judged. What ended up happening is that I took it and took it, and stuffed it, until I reacted.</p><p></p><p>I think we need to tell people how to treat us. To tell them what hurts, or what is not helpful. And I think each of us needs to try to take responsibility to hear this.</p><p></p><p>Because we are online we are especially vulnerable to mis-hear things. By dealing with hurts and misunderstandings when they are small, we guard some into their becoming big things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 750597, member: 18958"] I used to get tremendously wounded here on this board. There was somebody here who posted a lot who I cared about deeply and she cared about me. But her voice was very direct. I felt judged. What ended up happening is that I took it and took it, and stuffed it, until I reacted. I think we need to tell people how to treat us. To tell them what hurts, or what is not helpful. And I think each of us needs to try to take responsibility to hear this. Because we are online we are especially vulnerable to mis-hear things. By dealing with hurts and misunderstandings when they are small, we guard some into their becoming big things. [/QUOTE]
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