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How do you cope when everything is your fault?
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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 558251" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>llamafarm,</p><p></p><p>Sorry you are dealing with this, and I don't have any great advice for you, unfortunately. I dealt with the same issues this weekend with my 14 year old difficult child. Everything in the house is wrong, the food I cook, that she oversleeps, that it rains. Everything is my fault and if I say anything to her while she rants then she turns the argument on me and says if you just wouldn't have said anything than we wouldn't be fighting. Um so I told her lets get this rght, you get to blame me for everything whether I have anything to do with it at all, you get to tell me off about everything and I am just supposed to listen and be attentive and then when I do say something that she doesn't like in my defense um, I am the troulemaker and I have caused that argument too, because you know you didnt have to say anything. When hell freezes over, don't think so difficult child. So hang in there, you are not crazy and you are not the only going thru this. We don't have a lot of these issues anymore, they do dwindle down a little bit with maturty, but not always. Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 558251, member: 8787"] llamafarm, Sorry you are dealing with this, and I don't have any great advice for you, unfortunately. I dealt with the same issues this weekend with my 14 year old difficult child. Everything in the house is wrong, the food I cook, that she oversleeps, that it rains. Everything is my fault and if I say anything to her while she rants then she turns the argument on me and says if you just wouldn't have said anything than we wouldn't be fighting. Um so I told her lets get this rght, you get to blame me for everything whether I have anything to do with it at all, you get to tell me off about everything and I am just supposed to listen and be attentive and then when I do say something that she doesn't like in my defense um, I am the troulemaker and I have caused that argument too, because you know you didnt have to say anything. When hell freezes over, don't think so difficult child. So hang in there, you are not crazy and you are not the only going thru this. We don't have a lot of these issues anymore, they do dwindle down a little bit with maturty, but not always. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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