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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 703326" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Mamacat, that is stated brilliantly.</p><p></p><p>Those who can not let go of how our loved ones should be, as opposed to the reality of accepting who they are, past and present posters, seem to be the ones who can't move on. If one can't say to oneself,"I have no control over ABC, but I am happy with myself and have to stop trying to control ABC" one can die miserably. And the loved one has not benefited from our nagging or out misery.</p><p></p><p>It is a big lose/lose for them...npne of us need to suffer. I hope nobody here suffers forever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 703326, member: 1550"] Mamacat, that is stated brilliantly. Those who can not let go of how our loved ones should be, as opposed to the reality of accepting who they are, past and present posters, seem to be the ones who can't move on. If one can't say to oneself,"I have no control over ABC, but I am happy with myself and have to stop trying to control ABC" one can die miserably. And the loved one has not benefited from our nagging or out misery. It is a big lose/lose for them...npne of us need to suffer. I hope nobody here suffers forever. [/QUOTE]
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