NF, as my sig. states, is in the Navy, getting ready to be deployed, and his wife just got an apartment here. While I don't necessarily "support" the apartment she leased (I think it's WAY too expensive), I've helped her move into it. He also knows how I feel about the rent cost, but ultimately it's HIS money and her's to budget.
Your daughter isn't sewing wild oats, or if she is now, that will soon come to an end when she is deployed. If that's her sole reason for enlisting, she will either buck up or not make it too long.
