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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 485640" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Just MHO, you can't control whether or not she finds a way to abuse or sell or not take rx'd medications. Remember- the serenity prayer applies to you, too. BUT- you can control not giving her cash. I wouldn't make the check out to her. You can find a way to pay for the dr without making a check out to her. </p><p></p><p>When the issue becomes that you'd help her if you KNEW for sure, then the issue is that you don't trust her- right or wrong. No amount of watching, checking on, etc, will really 'fix' that. </p><p></p><p>Some people get to a point of almost stalking their grown kids- I'd recommend not doing that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 485640, member: 3699"] Just MHO, you can't control whether or not she finds a way to abuse or sell or not take rx'd medications. Remember- the serenity prayer applies to you, too. BUT- you can control not giving her cash. I wouldn't make the check out to her. You can find a way to pay for the dr without making a check out to her. When the issue becomes that you'd help her if you KNEW for sure, then the issue is that you don't trust her- right or wrong. No amount of watching, checking on, etc, will really 'fix' that. Some people get to a point of almost stalking their grown kids- I'd recommend not doing that. [/QUOTE]
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