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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 71937" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, two of my kids were adopted from overseas and my oldest son's mom wrote to us...she obviously wishes she'd kept him (or it seemed so). And my youngest ones mom did too. Don't know about #3 (daughter) and Lucas's birthmom used drugs and didn't want him (he's the only one who doesn't seem to care at all that he's adopted). But I do think adopted kids usually think of that hardest, loving thing as not so loving. Of course, I don't know about your kids. I know my older kids have told me that it doesn't matter why, it's that they did and that sometimes it really hurts. That may not be the case with your kids, but it was with mine. It made my divorce (the one from my first hub (yes, I'm in The Divorce Club...lol), and their father) harder for them, in my opinion. But all kids see things differently. I just meant it could be harder for them if they had these issues. I didn't mean to suggest they absolutely DID have them. *I* certainly think their birthparents did the right thing and try to pass that along to the kids, when it comes up (not very often, but it does). Sorry if you were offended.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 71937, member: 1550"] Well, two of my kids were adopted from overseas and my oldest son's mom wrote to us...she obviously wishes she'd kept him (or it seemed so). And my youngest ones mom did too. Don't know about #3 (daughter) and Lucas's birthmom used drugs and didn't want him (he's the only one who doesn't seem to care at all that he's adopted). But I do think adopted kids usually think of that hardest, loving thing as not so loving. Of course, I don't know about your kids. I know my older kids have told me that it doesn't matter why, it's that they did and that sometimes it really hurts. That may not be the case with your kids, but it was with mine. It made my divorce (the one from my first hub (yes, I'm in The Divorce Club...lol), and their father) harder for them, in my opinion. But all kids see things differently. I just meant it could be harder for them if they had these issues. I didn't mean to suggest they absolutely DID have them. *I* certainly think their birthparents did the right thing and try to pass that along to the kids, when it comes up (not very often, but it does). Sorry if you were offended. [/QUOTE]
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