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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 43811" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>to be able to cope with your difficult child and what he\she is doing?</p><p></p><p>I personally have come very close to divorce. I have totally changed my goals in my career. I went from full blast growth to accepting no new customers and weeding through and only keeping the best customers. This went against everything I have ever tried to accomplish and was very hard to swallow.</p><p></p><p>I let my help go and I am currently working alone and plan to keep it that way. I am the major breadwinner of the home, this has been an adjustment.</p><p></p><p>I could not handle any stress any longer. All these years of raw nerves, I had to make a change. </p><p></p><p>My difficult child has taught me better than anything else in life to find fullfillment in the small things, let things go that you can't control and I have had to let that overlap into other areas of my life.</p><p></p><p>I am glad to say that since I have made these changes, it is easier for me to walk in my shoes. I have seen my husband in a different light as well. We are now closer than we have been in a long time. Now that the wall surrounding me has been knocked down I see that it was me causing the conflict, I didn't even realize how huge a wall I had built until it started coming down.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I just wondered how many of you have found yourself in this same place? Where something has to change or you think you may not make it? </p><p></p><p>I have turned a back-flip in my career and instead of feeling insecure and scared of the future, I am at peace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 43811, member: 2389"] to be able to cope with your difficult child and what he\she is doing? I personally have come very close to divorce. I have totally changed my goals in my career. I went from full blast growth to accepting no new customers and weeding through and only keeping the best customers. This went against everything I have ever tried to accomplish and was very hard to swallow. I let my help go and I am currently working alone and plan to keep it that way. I am the major breadwinner of the home, this has been an adjustment. I could not handle any stress any longer. All these years of raw nerves, I had to make a change. My difficult child has taught me better than anything else in life to find fullfillment in the small things, let things go that you can't control and I have had to let that overlap into other areas of my life. I am glad to say that since I have made these changes, it is easier for me to walk in my shoes. I have seen my husband in a different light as well. We are now closer than we have been in a long time. Now that the wall surrounding me has been knocked down I see that it was me causing the conflict, I didn't even realize how huge a wall I had built until it started coming down. I just wondered how many of you have found yourself in this same place? Where something has to change or you think you may not make it? I have turned a back-flip in my career and instead of feeling insecure and scared of the future, I am at peace [/QUOTE]
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