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How much should a grandmother help with her daughters 4 children under 9???
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<blockquote data-quote="SRL" data-source="post: 376360" data-attributes="member: 701"><p>If you want to go, do so, and help only as much as you want to and have the energy to, after scheduling fun time with the grandchildren, and stay only as long as you want. She obviously wouldn't be working her fanny off from 6 am to 7pm when you're not there, so don't feel obligated. If you can't cope with the mess or her behaviors 24/7, check into a hotel to give yourself a break.</p><p> </p><p>Does your grown daughter or any of the grandchildren have mental health or developmental issues that make her incapable of managing things? If it's just a matter of a lot of young children and that she desires to spend her time on facebook, then I think she won't take care of what she needs to as long as she has free live-in help for months on end. </p><p> </p><p>I'm just not understanding why she has her hands so full. Women have been handling children and the household without a lot of help and single moms do it all the time. I'm not saying it's ideal, but is there a specific reason she's having so much trouble? The kids aren't that young and she's likely had two in school except for summers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SRL, post: 376360, member: 701"] If you want to go, do so, and help only as much as you want to and have the energy to, after scheduling fun time with the grandchildren, and stay only as long as you want. She obviously wouldn't be working her fanny off from 6 am to 7pm when you're not there, so don't feel obligated. If you can't cope with the mess or her behaviors 24/7, check into a hotel to give yourself a break. Does your grown daughter or any of the grandchildren have mental health or developmental issues that make her incapable of managing things? If it's just a matter of a lot of young children and that she desires to spend her time on facebook, then I think she won't take care of what she needs to as long as she has free live-in help for months on end. I'm just not understanding why she has her hands so full. Women have been handling children and the household without a lot of help and single moms do it all the time. I'm not saying it's ideal, but is there a specific reason she's having so much trouble? The kids aren't that young and she's likely had two in school except for summers. [/QUOTE]
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