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How Often Do You Bicker with-Your Spouse Abt difficult child?
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<blockquote data-quote="jal" data-source="post: 279595" data-attributes="member: 3477"><p>We have our moments, but rarely fight about difficult child. We are on the same page about him. I am very lucky though in the fact that husband is very involved in Dr. appointment's, in-home therapy and school. He is there at almost every single dr appointment and always at all school meetings. He is also very hands on with difficult child. We bounce off each other and can tell when one needs to step way, so we cover each other. We just started to realize that a lot of the times we are thinking the same thing or one of us says what the other was thinking. This comes from the fact that we have been together since we were 18 and we've been together for 18 yrs, so we kind of grew up together, so in a lot of ways we think somewhat alike.</p><p></p><p>As for losing a job over a difficult child, yes I did - I was there 9.5 yrs. We bought our house, got engaged, married and had difficult child all through my time there and actually, I am glad I did because they gave me several months paid vacation (because they knew they were wrong) and I landed a better job (with more flexibilty and understanding and better pay!) not long after.</p><p></p><p>It''s not ever easy and it is so stressful on you as individuals and as a couple. That is why you need to be sure to have alone time and couple time. It really can help you to decompress.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jal, post: 279595, member: 3477"] We have our moments, but rarely fight about difficult child. We are on the same page about him. I am very lucky though in the fact that husband is very involved in Dr. appointment's, in-home therapy and school. He is there at almost every single dr appointment and always at all school meetings. He is also very hands on with difficult child. We bounce off each other and can tell when one needs to step way, so we cover each other. We just started to realize that a lot of the times we are thinking the same thing or one of us says what the other was thinking. This comes from the fact that we have been together since we were 18 and we've been together for 18 yrs, so we kind of grew up together, so in a lot of ways we think somewhat alike. As for losing a job over a difficult child, yes I did - I was there 9.5 yrs. We bought our house, got engaged, married and had difficult child all through my time there and actually, I am glad I did because they gave me several months paid vacation (because they knew they were wrong) and I landed a better job (with more flexibilty and understanding and better pay!) not long after. It''s not ever easy and it is so stressful on you as individuals and as a couple. That is why you need to be sure to have alone time and couple time. It really can help you to decompress. [/QUOTE]
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