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How Often Do You Bicker with-Your Spouse Abt difficult child?
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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 279612" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">I am a lucky one. My husband is my rock and foundation. We never fight about difficult child and actually are closer because of him. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">I believe husband is a little autistic, he absolutely has no social intelligences and can not tell when he is hurting my feelings. But yet loves me very much and is hurt and frustrated when he finds out he has hurt them. Through counseling for difficult child, HD has learned lots of new communication techniques, particularly how to lessen and prove you have actually heard what was said. He now uses these techniques on me, and for the first time since we were married I feel he actually heard what I said. Which was always one of my biggest frustrations.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">husband has gone out of his way to support all of us. What ever is needed he will do. We both believe we need to be a united front, so we both make sure that any disagreements are discussed away from difficult child. So even if he disagrees with me, he will repeat whatever I said to difficult child, and then talk with me about it when difficult child is not around. I appreciate this and let him know. Also when difficult child is being particularly nasty to me, husband will take over and allow me to escape. I do the same when difficult child is angry at him. husband said that he can't imagine going through this with anyone else, and I could not make it without him.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">As far as losing a job. Well it is not lost, but husband is considering retiring much earlier than planned so he can manage things better at home. So he might chose to leave the job because of the difficult child.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">But, Jal what is alone time or couple time? I don't think we get much of that? Sometimes those discussions without difficult child is over the phone when we both are at work, because we never really get the time.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 279612, member: 6557"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Times New Roman]I am a lucky one. My husband is my rock and foundation. We never fight about difficult child and actually are closer because of him. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]I believe husband is a little autistic, he absolutely has no social intelligences and can not tell when he is hurting my feelings. But yet loves me very much and is hurt and frustrated when he finds out he has hurt them. Through counseling for difficult child, HD has learned lots of new communication techniques, particularly how to lessen and prove you have actually heard what was said. He now uses these techniques on me, and for the first time since we were married I feel he actually heard what I said. Which was always one of my biggest frustrations.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]husband has gone out of his way to support all of us. What ever is needed he will do. We both believe we need to be a united front, so we both make sure that any disagreements are discussed away from difficult child. So even if he disagrees with me, he will repeat whatever I said to difficult child, and then talk with me about it when difficult child is not around. I appreciate this and let him know. Also when difficult child is being particularly nasty to me, husband will take over and allow me to escape. I do the same when difficult child is angry at him. husband said that he can't imagine going through this with anyone else, and I could not make it without him.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]As far as losing a job. Well it is not lost, but husband is considering retiring much earlier than planned so he can manage things better at home. So he might chose to leave the job because of the difficult child.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]But, Jal what is alone time or couple time? I don't think we get much of that? Sometimes those discussions without difficult child is over the phone when we both are at work, because we never really get the time.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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