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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 707545" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Pasa. I am interested how you did this. Was the decorating process part of it for you?</p><p></p><p>I have been overwhelmed dealing with the "stuff" of my life. Part of this is that I brought all of my mother's home and clothing to my home, and have been unwilling to get rid of anything, really. Part of it is that I coped by online buying with the devastation brought to me by her dying, and having to face my whole life (which I felt I lived wrongly.) And the consequence of this? Junk I do not need or want. It was the clicking of the "buy" button that seemed to be what I thought I needed to get through each minute.</p><p></p><p>For a long time I judged myself unmercifully for what I felt unable to do or what I had done wrong. And to accuse me more? All of this stuff.</p><p></p><p>I am trying to see this as part of the process of recovery (of self, really.) That is my particular and unique journey, without so much self-judgment which has really gotten in the way. So I am seeing all of this as a honing process of myself.</p><p></p><p>So I am curious how you did this, reclaimed yourself or rebuilt yourself, or owned yourself, or showed yourself. How do you see this process. I would be very interested in knowing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 707545, member: 18958"] Pasa. I am interested how you did this. Was the decorating process part of it for you? I have been overwhelmed dealing with the "stuff" of my life. Part of this is that I brought all of my mother's home and clothing to my home, and have been unwilling to get rid of anything, really. Part of it is that I coped by online buying with the devastation brought to me by her dying, and having to face my whole life (which I felt I lived wrongly.) And the consequence of this? Junk I do not need or want. It was the clicking of the "buy" button that seemed to be what I thought I needed to get through each minute. For a long time I judged myself unmercifully for what I felt unable to do or what I had done wrong. And to accuse me more? All of this stuff. I am trying to see this as part of the process of recovery (of self, really.) That is my particular and unique journey, without so much self-judgment which has really gotten in the way. So I am seeing all of this as a honing process of myself. So I am curious how you did this, reclaimed yourself or rebuilt yourself, or owned yourself, or showed yourself. How do you see this process. I would be very interested in knowing. [/QUOTE]
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