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How often do you change the sheets?
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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 707560" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>I do understand what you are saying, and have seen it with a close friend.</p><p></p><p>You cling to these things like they are her essence. You would feel pain if separated by these things. It is good you are looking into getting wisdom and guidance.</p><p></p><p>We all mourn and deal with loss differently and in different phases. I believe the base feelings are the same...but we all pause in different places..a stalling perhaps.</p><p></p><p>Those things are just that. Of course a collection of things that you both shared could give you comfort...but if all were lost what would you have? She is in y o ur heart. She lives there and will as long as you allow it. You are now the one who keeps her memory alive....but the things can become a prison and can create a vortex that drains.</p><p></p><p>I don't know your faith...but forgiveness can be freeing. You will decide when this can be done.</p><p></p><p>You are a very loving and gracious woman it seems....many blessings to you.</p><p></p><p>And Happy Heart Day</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 707560, member: 20533"] I do understand what you are saying, and have seen it with a close friend. You cling to these things like they are her essence. You would feel pain if separated by these things. It is good you are looking into getting wisdom and guidance. We all mourn and deal with loss differently and in different phases. I believe the base feelings are the same...but we all pause in different places..a stalling perhaps. Those things are just that. Of course a collection of things that you both shared could give you comfort...but if all were lost what would you have? She is in y o ur heart. She lives there and will as long as you allow it. You are now the one who keeps her memory alive....but the things can become a prison and can create a vortex that drains. I don't know your faith...but forgiveness can be freeing. You will decide when this can be done. You are a very loving and gracious woman it seems....many blessings to you. And Happy Heart Day [/QUOTE]
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