Skittles
What a hard situation you are in. I hate that she has that creep around and he's the father of her baby. Ugh. She's tied to him forever now.
I have to agree with what the others have said as well. I love ChickPea's idea of you watching your grandchild so she can go to the doctor on her own. She really will never "grow up" unless you start to separate yourself more.
I constantly ask myself if we are enabling our son so I do get it! Most times we are not but it is so good to stay aware of that!!