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I hate to say this but I almost wish he would be arrested and that way I know where he is and that he isn't doing drugs. I am just beating myself up over any and all mistakes I made as a parent. I contacted his father who lives across the country and is in and out of the kids lives and he didn't even seem to care about what is going on. I was so mad! I told him that he is to blame and had he stayed in his kids lives I wouldn't have this problem right now. And his reply was "how am I to blame when you are the one that raised him?" REALLY?! It made me sick to my stomach! I was hoping he could come down here and maybe help me talk to our son but he has better things to do with his new family.