OMG. That is me. Sometimes I catch myself doing it and am able to change gears quickly, but always get a feeling of disappointment that I've allowed myself to morph into HIM, or what I THINK is him. Over the years I've made SO many assumptions that I know what he's thinking and what he would do, but really it's all about ME!
Who knew I was a control freak? Thought I was an easy going, laid back hippie type, but I couldn't have been more wrong. Working on it, though
