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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 270060" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I would respond either with a note or in person, with the point, "Please be specific when you ask for help. And the fact that you HAVE asked me for help without being specific - it tewlls me that the reason you need help, is because you are not sufficiently specific with difficult child. THAT is generally the problem, especially with a difficult child who has these issues already well spelled out in the IEP. So he didn't hand in his homework? OK, did you then go to him and ask him for it? Or did you instead write me a (non-specific) note out of pure frustration? We need to set some practical strategies in place. The first one being - HE needs help. Your help. We've told oyu how in the IEP but perhaps we need to spell it out for you. No problem - let's meet. Let me turn up as a temporary aide and I'll show you."</p><p></p><p>You deal with it by attacking the problem head-on, with solutions that the school can use.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 270060, member: 1991"] I would respond either with a note or in person, with the point, "Please be specific when you ask for help. And the fact that you HAVE asked me for help without being specific - it tewlls me that the reason you need help, is because you are not sufficiently specific with difficult child. THAT is generally the problem, especially with a difficult child who has these issues already well spelled out in the IEP. So he didn't hand in his homework? OK, did you then go to him and ask him for it? Or did you instead write me a (non-specific) note out of pure frustration? We need to set some practical strategies in place. The first one being - HE needs help. Your help. We've told oyu how in the IEP but perhaps we need to spell it out for you. No problem - let's meet. Let me turn up as a temporary aide and I'll show you." You deal with it by attacking the problem head-on, with solutions that the school can use. Marg [/QUOTE]
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