Our grandson seem to have this strange reaction immediately after a visit with the other grands.
I actually agree about staying quiet. Our daughter in law pushes for all of us to do things together. But it usually ends up very weird. Of course I hope they (the other grands) don’t try to manipulate our grandson in any way. We never do.
I won’t be sharing any of this or anything re in law family with our son or anyone in the family. No matter how strange.
But, it is annoying as heck.
Thank you for listening. and getting it off my chest is very helpful. 
