That’s it in a nutshell, Copa
Just saw your post last second Busy. Sooo true.
It’s so hard when you witness “toxic” behaviors.
It’s been hard, but of course I /we will say absolutely nada.
We had zero discernible reaction when our grandson did this flip flop.
Later, hubby and I briefly and privately noted it.
Our son is doing the best he can.
And interestingly and wonderfully, we like our daughter in law a lot.
It’s good to get it off my chest.
Although this experience is NOT gaslighting, it feels a little like that.
You witness something very bizarre and toxic. But, it’s not to be discussed and won’t be. Can’t be. Again, absolutely wont be. I agree totally.
I’m still human though.
I do believe in karma. I do believe more often than not, this type of thing reveals itself or bites one in the behind.
I assure you, i get Relief here, but I’ve learned my lesson. I am not saying a word to our son, his family , any people in my world. You guys are “it.”
PS thank you Busy. Yes, keeping the peace is s great thing. We have cut back a little in seeing the other grands. Our daughter in law was constantly forcing group things. But, we wish for some to be separate starting with Fathers Day. It seems to be ok.
