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The other grandparents have it in their minds that taking him out to eat is so special that only they should be allowed to do it. They want him to have childhood memories of them taking him out to eat. The problem is they don't want him to have memories of his OTHER grandparents taking him out. They think it should be reserved only for them. They're making him feel guilty because he allowed his OTHER grandparents to do something so special, and have probably told him going out to eat is something he gets to do only when they have him. The other thing is they think they have to compete with the OTHER grandparents. Do they try to out do the birthday or Christmas gifts he gets from you?

[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 748912, member: 21066"] The other grandparents have it in their minds that taking him out to eat is so special that only they should be allowed to do it. They want him to have childhood memories of them taking him out to eat. The problem is they don't want him to have memories of his OTHER grandparents taking him out. They think it should be reserved only for them. They're making him feel guilty because he allowed his OTHER grandparents to do something so special, and have probably told him going out to eat is something he gets to do only when they have him. The other thing is they think they have to compete with the OTHER grandparents. Do they try to out do the birthday or Christmas gifts he gets from you? [/QUOTE]

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