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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 685987" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Thank you. All.</p><p>It was very difficult. We stayed vigil by his side. The girls wanted to try heroic measures but the doctor came to talk with us and told us hubs was unresponsive to stimuli, pupils non reactive, etc. He only had stem function.</p><p>We made the decision to take off life support.</p><p>Rain appeared after the fact and was very angry. She looked at me with narrowed eyes and said "He would have done much more for you, he would have fought harder for you, you gave up on him, I want a second opinion." It cut me like a knife to my soul. This is what drugs do to people. This was not my dsughter speaking.</p><p>It is very sad. I love Rain, and will somehow process all of this. I know she was angry at the loss of her father.</p><p>In a very sad way, her lifestyle choices contributed to his ailing health as he silently grieved over her.</p><p>I hope and pray that one day she will know the love I have for her and decide to make a better life for herself.</p><p>I am going through so many emotions right now. I am so very grateful to all of you for your support and kind words.</p><p>Through these months of belonging to CD, I have been able to express myself in ways that have helped me to ride the storm of my d cs choices as well as hubs decline in health. I am thankful for this and feel that the strength I have gained with the help I received from all of you here, will</p><p>be a foundation to stand on and get through my grief.</p><p>Words cannot express my deep gratitude for everyone here, and especially those who work diligently to keep this site going. Your reaching out to me with cyber hugs and comforting words means more than you will ever know.</p><p>Me ke aloha pumehana,</p><p>New Leaf</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 685987, member: 19522"] Thank you. All. It was very difficult. We stayed vigil by his side. The girls wanted to try heroic measures but the doctor came to talk with us and told us hubs was unresponsive to stimuli, pupils non reactive, etc. He only had stem function. We made the decision to take off life support. Rain appeared after the fact and was very angry. She looked at me with narrowed eyes and said "He would have done much more for you, he would have fought harder for you, you gave up on him, I want a second opinion." It cut me like a knife to my soul. This is what drugs do to people. This was not my dsughter speaking. It is very sad. I love Rain, and will somehow process all of this. I know she was angry at the loss of her father. In a very sad way, her lifestyle choices contributed to his ailing health as he silently grieved over her. I hope and pray that one day she will know the love I have for her and decide to make a better life for herself. I am going through so many emotions right now. I am so very grateful to all of you for your support and kind words. Through these months of belonging to CD, I have been able to express myself in ways that have helped me to ride the storm of my d cs choices as well as hubs decline in health. I am thankful for this and feel that the strength I have gained with the help I received from all of you here, will be a foundation to stand on and get through my grief. Words cannot express my deep gratitude for everyone here, and especially those who work diligently to keep this site going. Your reaching out to me with cyber hugs and comforting words means more than you will ever know. Me ke aloha pumehana, New Leaf [/QUOTE]
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