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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751585" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Deni, unless the child is psychotic (unable to tell reality from fantasy) and thinks we are part of a world plot to kill him/her, they have the control to TRY being nice and do not have to act like babies if we won't do everything for them. I don't use common mental illnesses that are treatable, like depression and anxiety, as valid excuses for being hateful to us.</p><p></p><p>It took me thirty years, but I finally joined my husband in refusing Kay anything material. This may end with our never seeing her again. I dont want that, but I also rather have no relationship at all with her than the bossy, nasty, onesided, abusive relationship we have had since her young 20s. in my opinion that IS no relationship.</p><p></p><p>We are sort of where you are at. I'm glad you posted, although sorry that you had to tell us such a sad story. Still, I like to know I'm not alone or a monster for feeling better with Kay out of my life. I do miss Jaden, but with the lifestyle in that apartment, I believe they will lose custody one day and then we will be able to finally.see him. My other daughter is eager and ready to take custody of him the first chance she gets.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751585, member: 23706"] Deni, unless the child is psychotic (unable to tell reality from fantasy) and thinks we are part of a world plot to kill him/her, they have the control to TRY being nice and do not have to act like babies if we won't do everything for them. I don't use common mental illnesses that are treatable, like depression and anxiety, as valid excuses for being hateful to us. It took me thirty years, but I finally joined my husband in refusing Kay anything material. This may end with our never seeing her again. I dont want that, but I also rather have no relationship at all with her than the bossy, nasty, onesided, abusive relationship we have had since her young 20s. in my opinion that IS no relationship. We are sort of where you are at. I'm glad you posted, although sorry that you had to tell us such a sad story. Still, I like to know I'm not alone or a monster for feeling better with Kay out of my life. I do miss Jaden, but with the lifestyle in that apartment, I believe they will lose custody one day and then we will be able to finally.see him. My other daughter is eager and ready to take custody of him the first chance she gets. [/QUOTE]
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