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<blockquote data-quote="mom23gsfg" data-source="post: 130740" data-attributes="member: 4445"><p>well to start off ive sorta been on both sides of the fence . me and my hub's ex wife turned out to be friends. and much to his horror i have even invited her to have dinner with us and etc. (he thinks i shouldnt have done that) (when she was still living with us he thought she should just pick her up "without coming in and no dealings with him just me ")and strangely he was mad because i was not jealous , "i didnt feel any at all .ive never been jealous in my life ,just not that type of person" the way i see it is that the past is the past and thats where it should stay. </p><p>on the other hand my ex when he did decide to pop into my childrens' lives once a year (he no longer sees them )he was ate up with jealousy.i have even seen this man get jealous over a man i dated in gradeschool. ugh </p><p>however i dated a man for awhile before my hub and it just didnt work . but we remained friends for almost a year and that was it until he found out i was seeing someone else so he decided he wanted me back. not even a hint until then. so whos to say what could be going on in ur ex's mind? </p><p>however i have been friends with men i have dated "until hub put a stop to it because of his jealousy by threatening them" and we where friends for years. however i had one when he got married his wife was extremly jealous so that deflated the friendship. but i did have one that still to this day i talk to them and their wife.</p><p>i guees it all comes down to insicurities and and maybe u can ask urself if u where in his shoes what would u feel if the roles where reversed? or maybe it just whats in ur comfort zone. also when someone u love is around someone they once cared about i guees u cant help what goes through ur mind even though u know better than to even think it. </p><p>good luck with the green eyed monster of jelousy !</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom23gsfg, post: 130740, member: 4445"] well to start off ive sorta been on both sides of the fence . me and my hub's ex wife turned out to be friends. and much to his horror i have even invited her to have dinner with us and etc. (he thinks i shouldnt have done that) (when she was still living with us he thought she should just pick her up "without coming in and no dealings with him just me ")and strangely he was mad because i was not jealous , "i didnt feel any at all .ive never been jealous in my life ,just not that type of person" the way i see it is that the past is the past and thats where it should stay. on the other hand my ex when he did decide to pop into my childrens' lives once a year (he no longer sees them )he was ate up with jealousy.i have even seen this man get jealous over a man i dated in gradeschool. ugh however i dated a man for awhile before my hub and it just didnt work . but we remained friends for almost a year and that was it until he found out i was seeing someone else so he decided he wanted me back. not even a hint until then. so whos to say what could be going on in ur ex's mind? however i have been friends with men i have dated "until hub put a stop to it because of his jealousy by threatening them" and we where friends for years. however i had one when he got married his wife was extremly jealous so that deflated the friendship. but i did have one that still to this day i talk to them and their wife. i guees it all comes down to insicurities and and maybe u can ask urself if u where in his shoes what would u feel if the roles where reversed? or maybe it just whats in ur comfort zone. also when someone u love is around someone they once cared about i guees u cant help what goes through ur mind even though u know better than to even think it. good luck with the green eyed monster of jelousy ! [/QUOTE]
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