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Husband has an adult child that was adopted.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 720935" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I was a save the world person too. I thought love saved all. I did foster care and adopted kids too. But one kid we adopted burned us...he acted charming toward all adults, but sexually assaulted our two younger kids. Wow. That was a huge wske up call that love doesnt save anyone. We had him leave and never saw him again. A weaker marriage would have collapsed. It was a hard time. That cured me of bringing strangers into my life on that deep a level.</p><p></p><p>I would not bring this woman into your house with other kids there, no matter how much you want to try to "save" her. She obviously has serious issues. She has had them for years. Her parents know her best.</p><p></p><p>If you do let her in and she steals from you or kids or manipulates and hurts your kids, you will feel terrible. I would talk to her parents IN DETAIL before bringing her into your house. If I recall you have a very difficult, complicated six year old boy to think about. The last thing he needs is a new difficult, troubled, unknown "sister." You have no idea what she is capable of doing. You wont know that either.</p><p></p><p>Please be safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 720935, member: 1550"] I was a save the world person too. I thought love saved all. I did foster care and adopted kids too. But one kid we adopted burned us...he acted charming toward all adults, but sexually assaulted our two younger kids. Wow. That was a huge wske up call that love doesnt save anyone. We had him leave and never saw him again. A weaker marriage would have collapsed. It was a hard time. That cured me of bringing strangers into my life on that deep a level. I would not bring this woman into your house with other kids there, no matter how much you want to try to "save" her. She obviously has serious issues. She has had them for years. Her parents know her best. If you do let her in and she steals from you or kids or manipulates and hurts your kids, you will feel terrible. I would talk to her parents IN DETAIL before bringing her into your house. If I recall you have a very difficult, complicated six year old boy to think about. The last thing he needs is a new difficult, troubled, unknown "sister." You have no idea what she is capable of doing. You wont know that either. Please be safe. [/QUOTE]
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