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Husband has an adult child that was adopted.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724447" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Being the mother who stayed up nights, walked the floors, gave hugs and kisses just for love, cared for them in illness and helped, when they were sad, say while they did homework, fought for them at school, sacrificed and loved our kids every day, even when it was hard, I feel the worst sadness in this mess for the REAL mothers of the kids who ran off to bio. Mom than I feel for the kids.</p><p></p><p>Sorry. Anyone old enough to menstrate can breed and spit out a baby. And any man can contribute sperm. That isn't being a mother or father. That is simply doing what all animals do....have sex and possibly breed when they have the urges.</p><p></p><p>What are these kids thinking? How hurt their parents must be and my heart aches for them. And I dont care how manipulative bio. Mom is. The kids are certainly old enough to get who their parents are and are not. Seeing bio. Mom out of curiosity is one thing. Living with her over their families is on them. 100%. </p><p></p><p>My sympathy lies with adoptive parents. Of course, we are not perfect. Who is? But we truly loved and cared for them. The womb and sperm donors (no offense or particular man meant) contributed nothing to their childhood, probably the most important years of their lives. They don't e</p><p></p><p>ven know them.</p><p></p><p>Jmo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724447, member: 1550"] Being the mother who stayed up nights, walked the floors, gave hugs and kisses just for love, cared for them in illness and helped, when they were sad, say while they did homework, fought for them at school, sacrificed and loved our kids every day, even when it was hard, I feel the worst sadness in this mess for the REAL mothers of the kids who ran off to bio. Mom than I feel for the kids. Sorry. Anyone old enough to menstrate can breed and spit out a baby. And any man can contribute sperm. That isn't being a mother or father. That is simply doing what all animals do....have sex and possibly breed when they have the urges. What are these kids thinking? How hurt their parents must be and my heart aches for them. And I dont care how manipulative bio. Mom is. The kids are certainly old enough to get who their parents are and are not. Seeing bio. Mom out of curiosity is one thing. Living with her over their families is on them. 100%. My sympathy lies with adoptive parents. Of course, we are not perfect. Who is? But we truly loved and cared for them. The womb and sperm donors (no offense or particular man meant) contributed nothing to their childhood, probably the most important years of their lives. They don't e ven know them. Jmo [/QUOTE]
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