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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 583924" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Thank you all for your compassion. It helps make it real when I can post it and see it in black and white. husband is an emotional cripple. He had a very emotionally abusive mother. That is the root for his addiction but he refuses to delve too deeply into it so he has never been able to truly rise above it. He abstains for long periods of time by white knuckling it and then he relapses. </p><p></p><p>Buddy, I have a small account for me that he cannot touch since it was my mom's. It is enough to last me a couple of months if I am frugal. This state isn't one where I can really sock it to him for infidelity. It is an equitable property state. So is the one our second property is in... so it doesn't matter what his behavior has been. There will be a fair division of property and possibly alimony due to my health and the long length of our marriage.</p><p></p><p>MWM, Thank you I will be ok emotionally, you are right about that. It just will be hard to live on less than 24,000 in this area My co pays for medications alone come to two hundred a month. There are many cheaper places to live in the us but I want to be close to my daughters and grandkids. They are a source of joy for me and I do not want to live far from them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 583924, member: 2315"] Thank you all for your compassion. It helps make it real when I can post it and see it in black and white. husband is an emotional cripple. He had a very emotionally abusive mother. That is the root for his addiction but he refuses to delve too deeply into it so he has never been able to truly rise above it. He abstains for long periods of time by white knuckling it and then he relapses. Buddy, I have a small account for me that he cannot touch since it was my mom's. It is enough to last me a couple of months if I am frugal. This state isn't one where I can really sock it to him for infidelity. It is an equitable property state. So is the one our second property is in... so it doesn't matter what his behavior has been. There will be a fair division of property and possibly alimony due to my health and the long length of our marriage. MWM, Thank you I will be ok emotionally, you are right about that. It just will be hard to live on less than 24,000 in this area My co pays for medications alone come to two hundred a month. There are many cheaper places to live in the us but I want to be close to my daughters and grandkids. They are a source of joy for me and I do not want to live far from them. [/QUOTE]
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