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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 583932" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Don't you DARE assume you cannot stick it to him financially. Right now, TODAY, you start looking for the biggest shark lawyer you can find. Ask anyone you know who divorced if they or their ex got the worst end, and then ask for the atty of the party who got the best end. Given ALL he has done, there may be things an atty can do. NO ONE but a true SHARK should be telling you that you cannot get this or that. Right now you need to search his phone records and computers to see if he has things going on. I would also start transferring $$ OUT of joint accounts into ones in your name only. You may have to give some back after you file, but it will stop him from taking it out and hiding it or blowing it so you cannot have any. If you cared for his father until death, make SURE that you get paid a portion of his inheritance as his timing shows he only stayed married so he wouldn't need to pay a nurse. </p><p></p><p>PLEASE listen to my advice. I have seen friends and relatives all lose BIG because they didn't get the best atty they could (they said they trusted their soon to be ex to be fair, and universally it didn't happen) they thought it might not be nice to start taking all the $$ out while they could. MANY of hteem ended up having to go back to work near retirement age because their spouse took all the $$ and blew it so they couldn't get any. Your husband has shown you that he has little regard for you or your needs. He has wasted a ton of money in the past. He is going to do so again with as much of the investments and savings as he can so that you cannot get any, much less half. </p><p></p><p>You don't have to spend the $$, just take it out and move it to a different bank into an account in your name. If your names are both on the account, it is perfectly legal. A judge may say to give some back, but that will be better than losing all of it. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry he is such a fool. I hope things go well and you end up with enough to live comfortably.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 583932, member: 1233"] Don't you DARE assume you cannot stick it to him financially. Right now, TODAY, you start looking for the biggest shark lawyer you can find. Ask anyone you know who divorced if they or their ex got the worst end, and then ask for the atty of the party who got the best end. Given ALL he has done, there may be things an atty can do. NO ONE but a true SHARK should be telling you that you cannot get this or that. Right now you need to search his phone records and computers to see if he has things going on. I would also start transferring $$ OUT of joint accounts into ones in your name only. You may have to give some back after you file, but it will stop him from taking it out and hiding it or blowing it so you cannot have any. If you cared for his father until death, make SURE that you get paid a portion of his inheritance as his timing shows he only stayed married so he wouldn't need to pay a nurse. PLEASE listen to my advice. I have seen friends and relatives all lose BIG because they didn't get the best atty they could (they said they trusted their soon to be ex to be fair, and universally it didn't happen) they thought it might not be nice to start taking all the $$ out while they could. MANY of hteem ended up having to go back to work near retirement age because their spouse took all the $$ and blew it so they couldn't get any. Your husband has shown you that he has little regard for you or your needs. He has wasted a ton of money in the past. He is going to do so again with as much of the investments and savings as he can so that you cannot get any, much less half. You don't have to spend the $$, just take it out and move it to a different bank into an account in your name. If your names are both on the account, it is perfectly legal. A judge may say to give some back, but that will be better than losing all of it. I am so sorry he is such a fool. I hope things go well and you end up with enough to live comfortably. [/QUOTE]
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