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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 584338" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I hesitate to pitch in too many opinions but I have to say that HE should not be able to determine what you future is going to be...really, I mean that very sincerely. You have to take charge of your life and not be vulnerable to more poor mistakes that he may make jeopardizing your future. </p><p></p><p>I would be making a series of anonymous phone calls to attorneys offices and even the Courthouse asking for suggestions. "May I have a quick moment of your time? I am senior with health issues and after forty years my husband has decided he wants a divorce. Based on your experience could you provide me with the names of perhaps three good divorce attorneys in our community?" Alot of law firms do not do divorce so they likely would say that and then add "John Smith and David Brown do alot of divorce cases." Drink tea, make notes on who you are calling and what responses you get. I would guess that you'd end up with duplicate recommendations that might steer you in the right direction.</p><p></p><p>You might even go to the library and read about divorce procedures in your community. I bet they have books that include valuable info. The Clerk of the Court might say "Susie Q manages our divorce court and maybe she could help direct you." Make LOTS of calls. Don't agree to anything your husband suggests. This is YOUR future. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 584338, member: 35"] I hesitate to pitch in too many opinions but I have to say that HE should not be able to determine what you future is going to be...really, I mean that very sincerely. You have to take charge of your life and not be vulnerable to more poor mistakes that he may make jeopardizing your future. I would be making a series of anonymous phone calls to attorneys offices and even the Courthouse asking for suggestions. "May I have a quick moment of your time? I am senior with health issues and after forty years my husband has decided he wants a divorce. Based on your experience could you provide me with the names of perhaps three good divorce attorneys in our community?" Alot of law firms do not do divorce so they likely would say that and then add "John Smith and David Brown do alot of divorce cases." Drink tea, make notes on who you are calling and what responses you get. I would guess that you'd end up with duplicate recommendations that might steer you in the right direction. You might even go to the library and read about divorce procedures in your community. I bet they have books that include valuable info. The Clerk of the Court might say "Susie Q manages our divorce court and maybe she could help direct you." Make LOTS of calls. Don't agree to anything your husband suggests. This is YOUR future. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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