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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 584369" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>The state divorce laws are on the internet at the government site. I have read them. I would call upon my cousin's husband who is an attorney in another state to review them and let me know what he thinks I can expect, but his wife is fighting terminal cancer. Not a good time to ask for favors. </p><p></p><p>I have also done internet searches for reviews of local lawyers and whether or not they have had any diciplinary action taken against them. I have managed to eliminate two that way. There is another office I won't use becase when I consulted them for legal help for my son, they were hostile to him. Then later the lawyer indirectly called difficult child a "little sh**"... during a conversation with me no less. So they are out. Although, if they go to feeling that way about my husband, maybe it could work. LOL. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I got copies of all the recent retirement accounts' statements. They were in husband's dresser drawer. Yeah I know... why???. Actually I had asked him to get everything together for me a while ago because I was going to meet with our financial planner. I am guessing that is what he will <u><em>say</em></u> is the reason he had them there if asked. It might be true, but not trutsing him on that. Not going to say anything anyway. I don't want to tip my hand. I now have a folder of all accounts and the SS statement also for when I meet with the lawyer. I still need to find the life insurance policies and copy them too. He is due home soon so that will have to wait till he is not around. </p><p></p><p>You know what is weird? My friends husband went through this type of behavior a year ago when his father died. He startd acting out being disrespectful of her, drinking heavily and womanizing. He is a year older than my husband. I wonder how prevalent this reaction to parents death is. My husband started after his mother died and then was ok for a few years till his father died. Not that it matters just wondering...-RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 584369, member: 2315"] The state divorce laws are on the internet at the government site. I have read them. I would call upon my cousin's husband who is an attorney in another state to review them and let me know what he thinks I can expect, but his wife is fighting terminal cancer. Not a good time to ask for favors. I have also done internet searches for reviews of local lawyers and whether or not they have had any diciplinary action taken against them. I have managed to eliminate two that way. There is another office I won't use becase when I consulted them for legal help for my son, they were hostile to him. Then later the lawyer indirectly called difficult child a "little sh**"... during a conversation with me no less. So they are out. Although, if they go to feeling that way about my husband, maybe it could work. LOL. I got copies of all the recent retirement accounts' statements. They were in husband's dresser drawer. Yeah I know... why???. Actually I had asked him to get everything together for me a while ago because I was going to meet with our financial planner. I am guessing that is what he will [U][I]say[/I][/U] is the reason he had them there if asked. It might be true, but not trutsing him on that. Not going to say anything anyway. I don't want to tip my hand. I now have a folder of all accounts and the SS statement also for when I meet with the lawyer. I still need to find the life insurance policies and copy them too. He is due home soon so that will have to wait till he is not around. You know what is weird? My friends husband went through this type of behavior a year ago when his father died. He startd acting out being disrespectful of her, drinking heavily and womanizing. He is a year older than my husband. I wonder how prevalent this reaction to parents death is. My husband started after his mother died and then was ok for a few years till his father died. Not that it matters just wondering...-RM [/QUOTE]
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