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<blockquote data-quote="hope1990" data-source="post: 84661" data-attributes="member: 740"><p>TerryJ2, sorry I don't have any advice as the last several weeks I myself am considering counseling, and I probably won't tell husband.</p><p></p><p>Right now I feel nothing but empty. Some is from before difficult child and some since. husband was raised to work and provide, to him that meant for him to be home working and providing even when I was hospitalized, alone, having surgeries for ectopic pregnancies. Fast forward to a few weeks ago he came home in a huff acusing me of willing to walk all over anyone to help difficult child. Hello, difficult child spent 4 days in jail because I refused to bail him out,(husband was not going to discuss difficult child at all), difficult child's friends bailed him out. husband shut down about difficult child long ago, I have had to be the one to deal with it all. </p><p></p><p>I just know that I am tired. He deals with alot of physical stuff outside, we farm/ranch (although I am out there also hauling grain, hay, helping with cattle, etc.) It seems that is where he thinks his job ends, he no longer goes to IEP meetings at school for second child, does nothing in the house to help, and is no help emotionaly or spiritualy. </p><p></p><p>This isn't how I thought my life would be, and I don't think my expectations were that high, but I did think there would be more depth. I guess I just got the "depth" perception wrong! HA!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hope1990, post: 84661, member: 740"] TerryJ2, sorry I don't have any advice as the last several weeks I myself am considering counseling, and I probably won't tell husband. Right now I feel nothing but empty. Some is from before difficult child and some since. husband was raised to work and provide, to him that meant for him to be home working and providing even when I was hospitalized, alone, having surgeries for ectopic pregnancies. Fast forward to a few weeks ago he came home in a huff acusing me of willing to walk all over anyone to help difficult child. Hello, difficult child spent 4 days in jail because I refused to bail him out,(husband was not going to discuss difficult child at all), difficult child's friends bailed him out. husband shut down about difficult child long ago, I have had to be the one to deal with it all. I just know that I am tired. He deals with alot of physical stuff outside, we farm/ranch (although I am out there also hauling grain, hay, helping with cattle, etc.) It seems that is where he thinks his job ends, he no longer goes to IEP meetings at school for second child, does nothing in the house to help, and is no help emotionaly or spiritualy. This isn't how I thought my life would be, and I don't think my expectations were that high, but I did think there would be more depth. I guess I just got the "depth" perception wrong! HA!! [/QUOTE]
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