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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 84706" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Depth perception Hope? I love it!</p><p></p><p>Thank you Timer Lady and Marg, and all.</p><p></p><p><em>This is going to then challenge husband's way of relating to you, simply because of your changes.</em></p><p></p><p>This is true. He's already upset because he says I'm still angry all the time. But I'm just asserting myself. Now when I don't give up, he says, "You're are SUCH a pit bull!"</p><p></p><p>I guess I should take that as a compliment, considering how many yrs I gave in to things!</p><p></p><p>As per the counselor, I told him that yes, I am angry and I have a right to be. Everyone has a right to be angry sometimes. To put it in perspective, I said, "What's going to happen if I get angry? Is the car going to blow up? Why can't we tell one another we're angry?"</p><p>Clearly, he doesn't like anything that's uncomfortable emotionally. That's a typical guy thing. </p><p></p><p>I will be more careful to use "I" intead of "You." We are both aware of all that psycho-syntax but don't always use it. :smile:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 84706, member: 3419"] Depth perception Hope? I love it! Thank you Timer Lady and Marg, and all. [i]This is going to then challenge husband's way of relating to you, simply because of your changes.[/i] This is true. He's already upset because he says I'm still angry all the time. But I'm just asserting myself. Now when I don't give up, he says, "You're are SUCH a pit bull!" I guess I should take that as a compliment, considering how many yrs I gave in to things! As per the counselor, I told him that yes, I am angry and I have a right to be. Everyone has a right to be angry sometimes. To put it in perspective, I said, "What's going to happen if I get angry? Is the car going to blow up? Why can't we tell one another we're angry?" Clearly, he doesn't like anything that's uncomfortable emotionally. That's a typical guy thing. I will be more careful to use "I" intead of "You." We are both aware of all that psycho-syntax but don't always use it. [img]:smile:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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