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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 258998" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>I probably don't have any comforting answers, but here's my take on it short and sweet. In regards to the child support, will it stop automatically when it's paid in full? If it will, I would just tighten my belt, cut way back and go with the flow. It's better to just get that out of your hair and move on with life. Sometimes the hassle involved to stop or fight somethings takes more effort than to just complete it.</p><p></p><p>As far as husband never getting to meet the son he fathered............ I'm sorry and really don't mean to be rude or hurtful, but if he had relations with someone, he knew that there was the possibility of pregnancy and he had all those years to investigate whether he fathered a child or not. He holds equal responsibility in my eyes. Yes, it would have been easier if the mother had told him, but who knows what her reasons were for not telling him?</p><p></p><p>I hope your husband doesn't lose more hours or his job in the future. It really is such a scary time for everyone right now! I know he wouldn't make big bucks, but can he take on a part time job to supplement his income while times are difficult?</p><p></p><p>You've had a lot to deal with it seems for such a long time. I hope life settles for you and you get an opportunity to relax!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 258998, member: 30"] I probably don't have any comforting answers, but here's my take on it short and sweet. In regards to the child support, will it stop automatically when it's paid in full? If it will, I would just tighten my belt, cut way back and go with the flow. It's better to just get that out of your hair and move on with life. Sometimes the hassle involved to stop or fight somethings takes more effort than to just complete it. As far as husband never getting to meet the son he fathered............ I'm sorry and really don't mean to be rude or hurtful, but if he had relations with someone, he knew that there was the possibility of pregnancy and he had all those years to investigate whether he fathered a child or not. He holds equal responsibility in my eyes. Yes, it would have been easier if the mother had told him, but who knows what her reasons were for not telling him? I hope your husband doesn't lose more hours or his job in the future. It really is such a scary time for everyone right now! I know he wouldn't make big bucks, but can he take on a part time job to supplement his income while times are difficult? You've had a lot to deal with it seems for such a long time. I hope life settles for you and you get an opportunity to relax! [/QUOTE]
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