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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 745447" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>I am here for you too.</p><p>Do what makes YOU feel best. I am sorry things aren't working out as you would like between you and M. I think men in general have a harder time accepting that sometimes a person (especially another male) are doing what they can, even if it seems not enough. I think women are more accepting of that. Sometimes even though we know someone is intelligent they just can't do things we thing they should be capable of.</p><p>Sometimes they are being stubborn, sure. But I think sometimes they start to do what we expect then the anxiety kicks in and they get overwhelmed. I find it hard to believe that J just wants to make you unhappy. </p><p>What about setting a plan in your mind that is baby steps.</p><p>1st J gets near you.</p><p>If you feel safe you tell him- go to liver doctor and you can stay with me 1 week. Make neuro appointment. He can stay with you another week if he goes to neuro, then the next thing on the list.</p><p>I think you need a plan for yourself to reduce your anxiety in all this. If he wpn't even follow the 1st step. Then make a new plan.</p><p>Copa, try and get some rest. Please.</p><p></p><p>Huggs to you across the miles.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 745447, member: 23103"] I am here for you too. Do what makes YOU feel best. I am sorry things aren't working out as you would like between you and M. I think men in general have a harder time accepting that sometimes a person (especially another male) are doing what they can, even if it seems not enough. I think women are more accepting of that. Sometimes even though we know someone is intelligent they just can't do things we thing they should be capable of. Sometimes they are being stubborn, sure. But I think sometimes they start to do what we expect then the anxiety kicks in and they get overwhelmed. I find it hard to believe that J just wants to make you unhappy. What about setting a plan in your mind that is baby steps. 1st J gets near you. If you feel safe you tell him- go to liver doctor and you can stay with me 1 week. Make neuro appointment. He can stay with you another week if he goes to neuro, then the next thing on the list. I think you need a plan for yourself to reduce your anxiety in all this. If he wpn't even follow the 1st step. Then make a new plan. Copa, try and get some rest. Please. Huggs to you across the miles. [/QUOTE]
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