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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 745473" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Copa</p><p>Just catching up today. Been very busy this week with new year.</p><p></p><p>Wonderful friendship and advice you have gotten here. I would have to align my feelings most with Elsi.</p><p></p><p>Take baby steps here. Do what you need to do to feel okay but don't forget about you in the process.</p><p></p><p>I don't think you should permanently do anything to upset your relationship with M any further. I do not think you want him out of your life. I could be wrong but it seems he is a great source of comfort and strength to you. As we get older we so NEED that. No one wants to age alone. You deserve to have a life as a woman.</p><p></p><p>You raised your son. You love him. I get that. But you have to find a middle ground here and not just put YOU out of the equation.</p><p></p><p>I understand the worry of how he may not be able to do the things that he needs to do. I do hope that he gets analyzed so you can have some concrete answers to those questions.</p><p></p><p>To me the saddest thing I ever heard is that he or she is a lost soul. I could wail hearing that and when I thought of my son like that it broke me to my very core. To me the soul is everything. It is the beginning and the end.</p><p></p><p>I hate hoodies too. I don't even like my son's glasses because I've seen him high in them so many times. He just ordered new ones thankfully.</p><p></p><p>Prayers for you that you have peace, strength and guidance.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 745473, member: 15032"] Copa Just catching up today. Been very busy this week with new year. Wonderful friendship and advice you have gotten here. I would have to align my feelings most with Elsi. Take baby steps here. Do what you need to do to feel okay but don't forget about you in the process. I don't think you should permanently do anything to upset your relationship with M any further. I do not think you want him out of your life. I could be wrong but it seems he is a great source of comfort and strength to you. As we get older we so NEED that. No one wants to age alone. You deserve to have a life as a woman. You raised your son. You love him. I get that. But you have to find a middle ground here and not just put YOU out of the equation. I understand the worry of how he may not be able to do the things that he needs to do. I do hope that he gets analyzed so you can have some concrete answers to those questions. To me the saddest thing I ever heard is that he or she is a lost soul. I could wail hearing that and when I thought of my son like that it broke me to my very core. To me the soul is everything. It is the beginning and the end. I hate hoodies too. I don't even like my son's glasses because I've seen him high in them so many times. He just ordered new ones thankfully. Prayers for you that you have peace, strength and guidance. [/QUOTE]
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