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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 745613" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Copa, I'm sorry. I was off all weekend dealing with snowmageddon here in Missouri. Sounds like you had a really awful weekend. </p><p></p><p>I had a lot of things to say, but I'm not going to beat a dead horse...most has been covered by others. But this jumped out at me:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep. He has to do it his way. </p><p></p><p>I am sure you are sad at how this all turned out and upset about it all. I would be too. But in the end, he has to do it his way. He is making choices and you are not going to be able to make them for him. </p><p></p><p>You've given him many other choices and opportunities. Maybe it's time to sit back and set him free to make the choices on his own. If he want's to move in to the rental - he will ask. If he wants the appointment - he knows you will help. </p><p></p><p>The door is open and you're holding it so it doesn't slam shut. He knows you love him. He knows you will help him. He knows the door is open. There really isn't anything else you can do except go on with your life. </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 745613, member: 17309"] Copa, I'm sorry. I was off all weekend dealing with snowmageddon here in Missouri. Sounds like you had a really awful weekend. I had a lot of things to say, but I'm not going to beat a dead horse...most has been covered by others. But this jumped out at me: Yep. He has to do it his way. I am sure you are sad at how this all turned out and upset about it all. I would be too. But in the end, he has to do it his way. He is making choices and you are not going to be able to make them for him. You've given him many other choices and opportunities. Maybe it's time to sit back and set him free to make the choices on his own. If he want's to move in to the rental - he will ask. If he wants the appointment - he knows you will help. The door is open and you're holding it so it doesn't slam shut. He knows you love him. He knows you will help him. He knows the door is open. There really isn't anything else you can do except go on with your life. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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