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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 745723" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>That was very profound. Some “mystical” types for lack of a better word say that we may have been “given” a Difficult Child to learn something. Or because we had a special gift that could cope with this situation. I have always thought this”far out.” Buy, maybe. I don't know. ????</p><p></p><p>But such huge stresses does tend to make or break a person. Learn a lesson or freakin die.</p><p></p><p>I’m rushing to an appointment sadly. I’ll readress if I can later.</p><p></p><p>But many things you said resonated with me.</p><p></p><p>1. I’m of European heritage. Maybe maybe not any part of this.Pribably not. I did tend to think many of my relatives a little melodramatic. I was very close to my wise mom. Maybe maybe not also a part. But I too can fall into that mode /trap of needing rescuing and it almost getting addicted to the/their crxp. Not healthy.</p><p></p><p>2. A therapist once uncomfortably but surely told me my daughter’s current actions...yes could kill her. It was a wake up moment. Nothing I could do about it. Sad Light bulb moment.</p><p></p><p>I don’t get any of it. Life can be very unfair. But, I also have many blessings too. I’m trying to focus on that. I’ve learned a lot. In a weird way...this too is a blessing.</p><p></p><p>Powerful stuff.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 745723, member: 4152"] That was very profound. Some “mystical” types for lack of a better word say that we may have been “given” a Difficult Child to learn something. Or because we had a special gift that could cope with this situation. I have always thought this”far out.” Buy, maybe. I don't know. ???? But such huge stresses does tend to make or break a person. Learn a lesson or freakin die. I’m rushing to an appointment sadly. I’ll readress if I can later. But many things you said resonated with me. 1. I’m of European heritage. Maybe maybe not any part of this.Pribably not. I did tend to think many of my relatives a little melodramatic. I was very close to my wise mom. Maybe maybe not also a part. But I too can fall into that mode /trap of needing rescuing and it almost getting addicted to the/their crxp. Not healthy. 2. A therapist once uncomfortably but surely told me my daughter’s current actions...yes could kill her. It was a wake up moment. Nothing I could do about it. Sad Light bulb moment. I don’t get any of it. Life can be very unfair. But, I also have many blessings too. I’m trying to focus on that. I’ve learned a lot. In a weird way...this too is a blessing. Powerful stuff. [/QUOTE]
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