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I am sad and desperate and hopeless again
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 745734" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Well. I agree with this too.</p><p></p><p>What I am doing is like "blaming the victim." And trying to make myself responsible for both sides of the behavior. The actions and the effects. </p><p></p><p>But see, Baggy. We have no control here. If I can find a way to take responsibility for the actions and the effects, there is a way that this agony can stop. As long as I am attached to effects in my son, I am helpless. Because I do not see myself as detaching in any real way. I have to find a way to detach from the drama.</p><p></p><p>Your child is still young. Even though your control is limited, you have control. What control do I have?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 745734, member: 18958"] Well. I agree with this too. What I am doing is like "blaming the victim." And trying to make myself responsible for both sides of the behavior. The actions and the effects. But see, Baggy. We have no control here. If I can find a way to take responsibility for the actions and the effects, there is a way that this agony can stop. As long as I am attached to effects in my son, I am helpless. Because I do not see myself as detaching in any real way. I have to find a way to detach from the drama. Your child is still young. Even though your control is limited, you have control. What control do I have? [/QUOTE]
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