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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 745872" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>I agree.</p><p>It depends. DO you really believe;</p><p></p><p>I don't. I think you add value. Simply becasue he KNOWS you love him YOU add value. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Defensive about what?</p><p>You want something for him. Hopefully 1 day he will wake up and want something for himself. That is my hope for Ben too. Right now mine is (supposedly) happy living in a apartment with his girlfriend (who is in college and hopefully doesn't dump him after she graduates) and working at a low paying job. I think he is happy becasue the job has no real demands, no real brain power needed. </p><p>I told you mine doesn't even bother to answer a text unless he initiates and HE wants something. Even if I just send him a text of a simple question. JERK. It hurts my feelings so I refrain. </p><p>Don't bother contacting J anymore wait for him contact you. Let it all be on his initiative, if you don't hear from him just carry on with your own life.</p><p>How's M? Is he back with you? If not I hope you have someone to give you a hug and support in the physical world.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 745872, member: 23103"] I agree. It depends. DO you really believe; I don't. I think you add value. Simply becasue he KNOWS you love him YOU add value. Defensive about what? You want something for him. Hopefully 1 day he will wake up and want something for himself. That is my hope for Ben too. Right now mine is (supposedly) happy living in a apartment with his girlfriend (who is in college and hopefully doesn't dump him after she graduates) and working at a low paying job. I think he is happy becasue the job has no real demands, no real brain power needed. I told you mine doesn't even bother to answer a text unless he initiates and HE wants something. Even if I just send him a text of a simple question. JERK. It hurts my feelings so I refrain. Don't bother contacting J anymore wait for him contact you. Let it all be on his initiative, if you don't hear from him just carry on with your own life. How's M? Is he back with you? If not I hope you have someone to give you a hug and support in the physical world. [/QUOTE]
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