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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 437493" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Thank you Susie...........You are so right. That is what my therapist keeps telling me. I have to start living for me. Period. I have to take care of myself and no one else - or I am aiding in my own demise.</p><p></p><p>The dogs are also mine. We have had Diesel and Steele for 5 years - there were mine for most of that. I let matt have them when he moved here a year ago. I cannot ship them anywhere, or let matt deal with it. My dogs are really the only thing I have any love for anymore. They are so innocent. I got Tesla because our other dog Chester died, and I was so lonely - I thought because she was a female and a baby, Diesel would be OK. Anyway - the dogs are the only thing I love anymore - so they have to be ok.</p><p></p><p>I know, I have to stop buffering and being the liason. He is an adult. Why am I responsible? I have sacrificed everything to do what it right for my family ---- and I get nothing in return. I am done. I don't care if my mom is upset by him being in the same city - whatever - it is her problem. I was going up early to Portland on the first of July to help my mom AGAIN - and to scatter my Dad's ashes - and now I don't think I will go. I asked my Mom to scatter his ashes when he died in March and she wanted to wait until now. To hike 7 miles to the top of a mountain where my sisters ashes are also scattered just because that is what my mom wants to do doesn't jive anymore.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for understanding.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 437493, member: 3301"] Thank you Susie...........You are so right. That is what my therapist keeps telling me. I have to start living for me. Period. I have to take care of myself and no one else - or I am aiding in my own demise. The dogs are also mine. We have had Diesel and Steele for 5 years - there were mine for most of that. I let matt have them when he moved here a year ago. I cannot ship them anywhere, or let matt deal with it. My dogs are really the only thing I have any love for anymore. They are so innocent. I got Tesla because our other dog Chester died, and I was so lonely - I thought because she was a female and a baby, Diesel would be OK. Anyway - the dogs are the only thing I love anymore - so they have to be ok. I know, I have to stop buffering and being the liason. He is an adult. Why am I responsible? I have sacrificed everything to do what it right for my family ---- and I get nothing in return. I am done. I don't care if my mom is upset by him being in the same city - whatever - it is her problem. I was going up early to Portland on the first of July to help my mom AGAIN - and to scatter my Dad's ashes - and now I don't think I will go. I asked my Mom to scatter his ashes when he died in March and she wanted to wait until now. To hike 7 miles to the top of a mountain where my sisters ashes are also scattered just because that is what my mom wants to do doesn't jive anymore. Thanks for understanding. [/QUOTE]
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