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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 437806" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Steely - </p><p></p><p>Sometimes? There are things about ourselves that we're not able to see, and others can see it so clearly - but maybe we get afraid or we've just felt so kicked that one more thing we feel wrong with us is all we can take. The fact that you sat and had one good cry? Good. Now that is over. No need, no more. Done, fini. It's over, put it away, file it however you do in a mental file called - Things I needed to do, did and am over with. Then later when you get done doing all those things? You can go back, take that box (mentally) and have one big shredding party - and clear that space for GOOD things in your life. It's so peaceful and freeing. All these little things that roll into big things? Eventually won't matter later, like they do now. You won't forget them, and you won't forget the people for which they represent - but instead you will learn to replace the pain with happy thoughts and better memories - and that comes by drawing boundaries, taking control of YOUR life and learning how to let go of other peoples issues. YOU dear - are on the path to becoming a healer and letting go of being a fixer. It's an awesome journey. Along the way - you find enlightment - peace.....representation as an example for others. Think about how you would want others to view you and what you would want them to learn from you - THATs what this new adventure is about. Self. You can't drag an anchor and put wind in your sails successfully.....</p><p></p><p>And I think someone will look out for that pup! lol - She's a blessed creature! I blessed her this morning when she trimmed my pothos!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 437806, member: 4964"] Steely - Sometimes? There are things about ourselves that we're not able to see, and others can see it so clearly - but maybe we get afraid or we've just felt so kicked that one more thing we feel wrong with us is all we can take. The fact that you sat and had one good cry? Good. Now that is over. No need, no more. Done, fini. It's over, put it away, file it however you do in a mental file called - Things I needed to do, did and am over with. Then later when you get done doing all those things? You can go back, take that box (mentally) and have one big shredding party - and clear that space for GOOD things in your life. It's so peaceful and freeing. All these little things that roll into big things? Eventually won't matter later, like they do now. You won't forget them, and you won't forget the people for which they represent - but instead you will learn to replace the pain with happy thoughts and better memories - and that comes by drawing boundaries, taking control of YOUR life and learning how to let go of other peoples issues. YOU dear - are on the path to becoming a healer and letting go of being a fixer. It's an awesome journey. Along the way - you find enlightment - peace.....representation as an example for others. Think about how you would want others to view you and what you would want them to learn from you - THATs what this new adventure is about. Self. You can't drag an anchor and put wind in your sails successfully..... And I think someone will look out for that pup! lol - She's a blessed creature! I blessed her this morning when she trimmed my pothos! [/QUOTE]
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