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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 619497" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there.</p><p></p><p>I feel badly for your parents. I think you should own up to what you did and rather than paying them back and ducking out of letting them know, be brave and tell them the truth and let the natural consequences fall where they may.</p><p></p><p>If you are really sorry and want to change, my biggest recommendation is serious therapy. It is a lot of hard work to change. I was no sterling daughter and I had to change, and worked very hard at it, although stealing that amount of money never crossed my mind.I had a mood disorder and borderline personality traits...you may too. Once I knew what was going on, I could read about the problems, work hard in therapy, and change. It wasn't easy, but it was worth it. You have the same choice. I still am on medication and go to therapy diligently because I know I am "wired differently" and need a tune up at times...lol. I tend to get depressed without my medication and tune-ups. I am 60 now. I have worked my tail off to be a good person all these years.</p><p></p><p>I think it would probably be a good thing if you got a job...any job...and moved out, even if that means renting a room in somebody's house. That way you and your parents have some space from one another and you are learning to be a productive, independent adult.</p><p></p><p>You are lucky your parents didn't call the police. At your age, with what you did, I would have. So your parents are less harsh on you than I would have been.</p><p></p><p>If this sounds tough it's because you don't need kindness right now. You need a kick in the pants to show you how you are making horrible choices and need to get help TODAY. This is no time to feel sorry for yourself. This is the time to realize that you have GOT to turn your life around and that you can not do it without serious professional help.</p><p></p><p>Otherwise, I can tell you that the worst thing you can do to your parents is to commit suicide. The best thing you can do is to start living a socially acceptable, productive, clean life in which you work hard on your moral compass.</p><p></p><p>Please tell your parents the truth and get serious help for yourself. If you don't know why you do the things that you do, you need to find out why and how to stop doing them before you end up in jail for stealing from somebody else.</p><p></p><p>Sending you vibes of hope...you can do it. If you want to do it. It is 100% up to you to find the right help and decide you are not going to steal again...ever. Nobody can do that for you. Only you can and, yes, it is possible.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 619497, member: 1550"] Hi there. I feel badly for your parents. I think you should own up to what you did and rather than paying them back and ducking out of letting them know, be brave and tell them the truth and let the natural consequences fall where they may. If you are really sorry and want to change, my biggest recommendation is serious therapy. It is a lot of hard work to change. I was no sterling daughter and I had to change, and worked very hard at it, although stealing that amount of money never crossed my mind.I had a mood disorder and borderline personality traits...you may too. Once I knew what was going on, I could read about the problems, work hard in therapy, and change. It wasn't easy, but it was worth it. You have the same choice. I still am on medication and go to therapy diligently because I know I am "wired differently" and need a tune up at times...lol. I tend to get depressed without my medication and tune-ups. I am 60 now. I have worked my tail off to be a good person all these years. I think it would probably be a good thing if you got a job...any job...and moved out, even if that means renting a room in somebody's house. That way you and your parents have some space from one another and you are learning to be a productive, independent adult. You are lucky your parents didn't call the police. At your age, with what you did, I would have. So your parents are less harsh on you than I would have been. If this sounds tough it's because you don't need kindness right now. You need a kick in the pants to show you how you are making horrible choices and need to get help TODAY. This is no time to feel sorry for yourself. This is the time to realize that you have GOT to turn your life around and that you can not do it without serious professional help. Otherwise, I can tell you that the worst thing you can do to your parents is to commit suicide. The best thing you can do is to start living a socially acceptable, productive, clean life in which you work hard on your moral compass. Please tell your parents the truth and get serious help for yourself. If you don't know why you do the things that you do, you need to find out why and how to stop doing them before you end up in jail for stealing from somebody else. Sending you vibes of hope...you can do it. If you want to do it. It is 100% up to you to find the right help and decide you are not going to steal again...ever. Nobody can do that for you. Only you can and, yes, it is possible. [/QUOTE]
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