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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 202480" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Toto - </p><p> </p><p>It may not make any difference - but please let your brother know that he is NOT the only one with the "angry" gene and with therapy and help he can learn to control his anger. </p><p> </p><p>For him to come forward and ask for help? I believe that is a good place for him to be and how brave he was to speak out - We've all had periods of anger in our lives but until you LIVE with someone that is angry day in day out, 365 days a year and just seems miserable - it's hard to understand how THEY feel - and it's hard. I've lived with 2 like that and it IS genetic....if it were not then with all the intervention Dude has had; he would be a different person - actually without all the intervention, and with the level of anger Dude has daily - he would be dead. </p><p> </p><p>I keep waiting to hear through the grapevine that his biodad is dead from something relating to his anger and outbursts. My biggest hope is that my son really never has kids and this stops with him. There is only one other boy in the family and he's my nephew and him and HIS father are anger-directed people too and they self medicate with drugs and alcohol. I don't know if it has a name - never really thought about it. Biodad is more than likely BiPolar (BP), his MOther was and his grandfather on his dad's side was...the whole family ? Basically short wired. Even the women. Violent and every day is like a Jerry Springer set - over the smallest things. Always ready to "Kick someone in the arse" over dumb stuff -really dumb stuff....like "Did you see that woman look to the left? I think I should just go up and slap her." kinda stuff. Not normal - but possibly fixable or at least adjustable. </p><p> </p><p>He's not alone!! SOmetimes it helps to tell them that.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/peaceful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":peaceful:" title="peaceful :peaceful:" data-shortname=":peaceful:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 202480, member: 4964"] Toto - It may not make any difference - but please let your brother know that he is NOT the only one with the "angry" gene and with therapy and help he can learn to control his anger. For him to come forward and ask for help? I believe that is a good place for him to be and how brave he was to speak out - We've all had periods of anger in our lives but until you LIVE with someone that is angry day in day out, 365 days a year and just seems miserable - it's hard to understand how THEY feel - and it's hard. I've lived with 2 like that and it IS genetic....if it were not then with all the intervention Dude has had; he would be a different person - actually without all the intervention, and with the level of anger Dude has daily - he would be dead. I keep waiting to hear through the grapevine that his biodad is dead from something relating to his anger and outbursts. My biggest hope is that my son really never has kids and this stops with him. There is only one other boy in the family and he's my nephew and him and HIS father are anger-directed people too and they self medicate with drugs and alcohol. I don't know if it has a name - never really thought about it. Biodad is more than likely BiPolar (BP), his MOther was and his grandfather on his dad's side was...the whole family ? Basically short wired. Even the women. Violent and every day is like a Jerry Springer set - over the smallest things. Always ready to "Kick someone in the arse" over dumb stuff -really dumb stuff....like "Did you see that woman look to the left? I think I should just go up and slap her." kinda stuff. Not normal - but possibly fixable or at least adjustable. He's not alone!! SOmetimes it helps to tell them that. Hugs :peaceful: [/QUOTE]
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