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I do believe another car has been blown.
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 387935" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Shari, this sounds like a solid plan. I don't know if it will work, but whether it does or doesn't will give you all the information you need for the next decision you have to make.</p><p></p><p>The only thing I would change is the number of chances. When I play baseball, strike 3 means "yer OUT!" If husband is already at strike 3, then he's run out of chances. I would open the separate account and put the rest of your plan into action immediately. husband has already shown you that he won't play along with your current rules. It's beyond time that you modified them to let him feel the natural consequences.</p><p></p><p>I also think that, rather than nagging him you should just let him sink or swim. Be sure that he doesn't have access to any of your stuff (truck, keys, bank account, whatever) and then just leave him to it. On top of everything else you have to worry about, you certainly don't need to manage this project.</p><p></p><p>Sending you a steel-toed boot for a swift kick wherever one would be most useful, and my favourite whacking stick. I just finished using them on a co-worker who was bogging down my project, and won't be needing them for a while.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 387935, member: 3907"] Shari, this sounds like a solid plan. I don't know if it will work, but whether it does or doesn't will give you all the information you need for the next decision you have to make. The only thing I would change is the number of chances. When I play baseball, strike 3 means "yer OUT!" If husband is already at strike 3, then he's run out of chances. I would open the separate account and put the rest of your plan into action immediately. husband has already shown you that he won't play along with your current rules. It's beyond time that you modified them to let him feel the natural consequences. I also think that, rather than nagging him you should just let him sink or swim. Be sure that he doesn't have access to any of your stuff (truck, keys, bank account, whatever) and then just leave him to it. On top of everything else you have to worry about, you certainly don't need to manage this project. Sending you a steel-toed boot for a swift kick wherever one would be most useful, and my favourite whacking stick. I just finished using them on a co-worker who was bogging down my project, and won't be needing them for a while. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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