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I do not like being a sandwich! Warning - pity party happening here
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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 327910" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>I am sending my sympathies - my mother is comming to live here next year and everytime I think about what my life is gonna be like I just have the urge to be sedated ahead of time My brother was taking care of her and passed away, but not before he and sister in law used up most of her money. My aunt went and got her and placed her in assisted living in Ohio, but now she has managed to p her off, big time, and she is done doing for her, like stick me with a fork kinda done- not to mention she probably doesnt have enough money to live at the home past maybe June. </p><p> </p><p>Am sorta sandwiched in between her and my SO who is valently struggling to stay OUT of a wheel chair and my mother who is definately losin it, and can barely walk with a walker. Not to mention his mothers health and he is stressing over that.</p><p> </p><p>I get a couple of calls a day from mom, where she is either crying, accusing people in the home of stealing her stuff, accusing my aunt of stealing her money, giivng me an inventory of what stuff she has left and what she wants to bring with her, am I sure my aunt isn't in charge of her money (she is, but trying to get my mother to understand there isn't much I can do about being on her bank account while I am some 3,000 miles away isn't working for the bank so I lie to her) ..some days I don't even answer my phone it gets that bad LOL</p><p> </p><p>If my brother (aka The Saint) and his wife had not gone on a 5,000 spending spree for months and months and months on end, I could have put her in an assisted living here.</p><p> </p><p>I don't know what you can do with your sis and your mom if they don't want to move cept say either move close by me or else. Its bad when family gets older or is ladden with illneses - its really bad when they are stubborn to boot.</p><p> </p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 327910, member: 47"] I am sending my sympathies - my mother is comming to live here next year and everytime I think about what my life is gonna be like I just have the urge to be sedated ahead of time My brother was taking care of her and passed away, but not before he and sister in law used up most of her money. My aunt went and got her and placed her in assisted living in Ohio, but now she has managed to p her off, big time, and she is done doing for her, like stick me with a fork kinda done- not to mention she probably doesnt have enough money to live at the home past maybe June. Am sorta sandwiched in between her and my SO who is valently struggling to stay OUT of a wheel chair and my mother who is definately losin it, and can barely walk with a walker. Not to mention his mothers health and he is stressing over that. I get a couple of calls a day from mom, where she is either crying, accusing people in the home of stealing her stuff, accusing my aunt of stealing her money, giivng me an inventory of what stuff she has left and what she wants to bring with her, am I sure my aunt isn't in charge of her money (she is, but trying to get my mother to understand there isn't much I can do about being on her bank account while I am some 3,000 miles away isn't working for the bank so I lie to her) ..some days I don't even answer my phone it gets that bad LOL If my brother (aka The Saint) and his wife had not gone on a 5,000 spending spree for months and months and months on end, I could have put her in an assisted living here. I don't know what you can do with your sis and your mom if they don't want to move cept say either move close by me or else. Its bad when family gets older or is ladden with illneses - its really bad when they are stubborn to boot. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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