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<blockquote data-quote="Lynn34" data-source="post: 722631" data-attributes="member: 22027"><p>Thank you all for sharing your wisdom. I may be dense, but I really don’t know the next step. I am laying here in bed and afraid of what the day will bring since she slept almost all of yesterday. </p><p>I understand, I need to take care of my self. That will mean I will have to leave her alone. She is afraid to be alone with her thoughts but maybe the more that happens the more she will be open to finding help. </p><p>I did call Nami again. There is nothing available if she doesn’t want to engage and besides the support groups nothing for me. I can try another group. The one I did go to was horrible. Al-Anon has been a help</p><p></p><p>Are there therapist to walk you through the steps? I tried 4. The one I am with now is kind and wise but not tuned in to what resources ar eavailable. Helps with mindset but I really need specific steps. I do believe my daughter would be better without me. I don’t know how to remove my self. At home, I read or watch tv on my phone with earplugs just not to be available. </p><p></p><p>Some things for sure that I can do:</p><p>I will not let her borrow money. She has no way of paying it back</p><p></p><p>Keep clothes in the car, if she starts to go sideways, I will leave. Let someone else call the police.</p><p></p><p>I will continue to pray and meditate each day</p><p></p><p>I will turn my phone off at work</p><p></p><p>Besides that, I really don’t know how to motivate her to get help or just move on. She is drowning and is pulling me down. I don’t want this. I need to rebuild my life after the breakup of my marriage. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lynn34, post: 722631, member: 22027"] Thank you all for sharing your wisdom. I may be dense, but I really don’t know the next step. I am laying here in bed and afraid of what the day will bring since she slept almost all of yesterday. I understand, I need to take care of my self. That will mean I will have to leave her alone. She is afraid to be alone with her thoughts but maybe the more that happens the more she will be open to finding help. I did call Nami again. There is nothing available if she doesn’t want to engage and besides the support groups nothing for me. I can try another group. The one I did go to was horrible. Al-Anon has been a help Are there therapist to walk you through the steps? I tried 4. The one I am with now is kind and wise but not tuned in to what resources ar eavailable. Helps with mindset but I really need specific steps. I do believe my daughter would be better without me. I don’t know how to remove my self. At home, I read or watch tv on my phone with earplugs just not to be available. Some things for sure that I can do: I will not let her borrow money. She has no way of paying it back Keep clothes in the car, if she starts to go sideways, I will leave. Let someone else call the police. I will continue to pray and meditate each day I will turn my phone off at work Besides that, I really don’t know how to motivate her to get help or just move on. She is drowning and is pulling me down. I don’t want this. I need to rebuild my life after the breakup of my marriage. Thank you all~ [/QUOTE]
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